Sociable restaurant dinners for adults aged 30 and above in Nottingham. Discover new places to eat, share great food and enjoy easy conversation around the table. Come on your own or bring a friend. Your first event is free.
Our dining events are about the people as much as the food. From independent favourites to stylish city centre restaurants, we book the table so all you need to do is turn up hungry.
Lots of our members come on their own. Our hosts introduce you, find you a seat and make sure you are part of the conversation from the very first course.
It is one of the easiest ways to meet new people in Nottingham, because good food gets everyone talking.
From booking your place to your final course, here is what to expect.
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Book Your Place
Choose a dining event from our upcoming events and book online in a couple of clicks. Your first Affinity event is free.
2
Arrive and Say Hello
Head to the restaurant and look out for your Affinity host. They will welcome you, introduce you to everyone and find you a seat.
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Order and Enjoy
Choose from the menu and enjoy great food in good company. Some events have a set menu or sharing dishes, and at the end you simply pay for what you ordered.
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Stay, Chat and Connect
Linger over dessert or head on for a drink nearby. Plenty of members leave with new friends and plans for the next dinner.
Want to meet new people without the awkward small talk
Fancy a night out that is not just about drinks
Would rather not eat out on their own
Would like a regular social plan to look forward to
Why Members Love Dining Out
Tables booked and hosted for you, just turn up
Small, friendly groups so everyone gets involved
Independent and well-loved Nottingham restaurants
Hosts who welcome you and make introductions
Plenty of laughs and new faces every time
I’m a new member and went to your New Members’ Night at the Cosy Club. This was highly elegant, well-organised and I was made exceptionally welcome! I can sometimes find new social events a little intimidating so was astonished at how comfortable I felt in your carefully curated environment! Thank you and I’ll certainly attend some more of your events! Kind regards, Mark.
Mark, Carlton, Nottingham.
I’ve really enjoyed being part of Affinity. There’s a great variety of events, from meals and nights out to paint and sip evenings, so there’s always something to suit everyone. The hosts are super friendly and welcoming, so even if you go on your own, you quickly feel included. I’d definitely recommend it!
Charne Ray, Nottingham.
I decided to join Affinity because I was already friendly with a few of the event hosts and was excited to keep that sense of togetherness going. The atmosphere at Affinity events is so welcoming, and with such a mix of events there’s always something for everyone.
What really stood out to me was the excellent hosting, which makes everyone feel genuinely at home. In one sentence: Affinity is wonderfully inclusive. Even if you turn up on your own, you’re made to feel part of the group.
Emma, Nottm.
My adult children left home a few years ago and my social circle seemed to be depleting, I just wanted to have fun and meet new people. My friend Paul encouraged me to attend the Affinity Launch and I am SO grateful I went!
Upon arrival I was anxious, self conscious and out of my comfort zone but I was made to feel SO welcome! Met some.incredible humans!
Had such a laugh! I even started playing a party game with the balloons! I am proudly over 17 years sober and clearly do not need to drink to have fun! Attended several events and have lots upcoming too! Come.and join us! Best thing I did!
Kerry, Bingham, Nottingham.
Affinity Club has organised some fab events and is a really lovely group of people. I’ve met some really lovely new friends since being a member. Thank you hosts 🙂 x
Fiona, Wollaton, Nottingham.
I was introduced to this group as I recently moved to Nottingham and had no friends here. After a short period of time, I have been out several times doing various activities. I have also experienced new things in life. Most importantly,
I have met lots of wonderful people, and now have made some amazing friends too. Thank you to all those involved in organising and hosting the events.
Nilesh, Nottingham.
I’ve attended quite a few events now, from dinners to drinks, and every one has been a great experience. Everyone is genuinely friendly and welcoming. Walking into a room where you don’t know anyone can feel a little daunting at first, but the hosts and members go out of their way to make you feel included from the moment you arrive.
One thing I particularly like is that the groups are a good size, not too large so you have the chance to chat and connect with most people. The hosts clearly care about creating a welcoming atmosphere and ensuring no one feels left out.
My only complaint is that there are so many great events to choose from that I can’t attend them all 😂
I’m really glad I joined and would highly recommend it to anyone looking to meet new people and enjoy some fantastic social events.
Claire, Ruddington.
I joined Affinity to broaden my friendship group following a breakdown of a long term relationship and it has not disappointed. I feel comfortable attending alone, the people I have met have welcomed me and I have found everyone very friendly.
I love the wide choice of activities.
My diary is now very full and I look forward with anticipation to having many more laughs and making great memories.
I would recommend this group to people looking to get out and enjoy themselves whilst making friends along the way.
Michelle, Nottingham.
Dining Out and More
Dining out is just one part of the Affinity calendar. Once you have found your feet around the table, there is a whole diary of other ways to meet new people across Nottingham. Members also enjoy:
Recaps, restaurant spotlights and stories from our dining events around Nottingham. See what our members get up to, discover the places we eat and find inspiration for your first night out with us.
Discover the best independent wine bars in Nottingham, from self-serve Another? to Delilah and Weavers. Plus where to turn a glass into a great night out.
Take a look back at some of our recent dining events, with photos and write-ups from the night. From Indian tapas at Vi-Va to dinner at The Ivy, each recap shows the food we enjoyed, the restaurants we visited and the new friendships made around the table.
We dine at a mix of independent favourites and well-known names across Nottingham, from The Ivy and MemSaab to Noshi and Vi-Va Indian Tapas. We are always looking for new restaurants with a relaxed atmosphere, great food and room for a friendly group.
Everything you need to know before your first dining event.
Not at all. Many members come to their first dining event knowing nobody. Our hosts introduce you as you arrive, and the conversation soon flows around the table.
Absolutely. Many of our members come to their first dining event alone. Our hosts will welcome you, introduce you to others and find you a seat at the table. It is best to arrive on time, so your host can introduce you to other members as they arrive.
We visit a wide range of restaurants across Nottingham, West Bridgford and beyond, from city centre favourites to independent gems. The restaurant is always shown on the event page before you book.
It changes every time. Recent events have included Indian tapas, Pan-Asian sharing plates, Italian, Thai and classic British dining. Some events have a set menu, while others let you order from the full menu.
Friendly adults, typically aged 30 and above, from across Nottingham, but all ages are welcome. Some are keen foodies, some are new to the city, and everyone is there to meet new people and enjoy a good meal.
Most Affinity events are free to attend. Some dining events require a deposit to secure your place, and you pay for your own food and drink on the night. Full details are always shown on the event page. You can see membership options on our pricing page.
Most of the restaurants we visit can cater for vegetarian, vegan and other dietary needs. Check the menu details on the event page, and get in touch if you have any questions before the night.
Join Affinity for free, then choose a dining event from our upcoming dining events and book online. You will receive a confirmation email with all the details.
Grab a Seat at the Table
More connection. More confidence. More life.
Whether you are a seasoned foodie or simply fancy a night off from cooking, there is always a seat waiting for you at our dining events. Come on your own or bring a friend, and you will leave with new faces to look forward to seeing next time.
Tables are booked for you, the restaurants are relaxed and our hosts make sure everyone feels welcome from the very first course.
Join Affinity Club today and enjoy your first event free.
